the reason i think "50 shades" is a turn for the worse...

you see this guy right here...

yes, that one... the amazing man to my left, your right... that's MY husband! this year we'll have been married for 10 years. they have been the most challenging yet fulfilling years of my life. we have worked SO hard to get where we are... fighting for our marriage when the love didn't feel like it was enough... the fact of the matter is our love will NEVER be enough... but God's love was enough during those days of despair...

anyway... so yea that's MY husband :) he is the most amazing, compassionate, hilarious, giving, thoughtful, hard-working, man of God i have ever met! everyone who meets him thinks & says the same things.

now because he's MY husband i get to say a few things about him that others can't... he is gorgeous, oh God he is so handsome! he is beyond sexy... the man has a natural swagger about him that just doesn't stop! there is a magnet that draws me to him... oh Lord am i drawn to him!!! but he is MY husband so i can say all of these things freely, with pride & God smiles on our passion for each other!!

this leads me to the topic at hand... this "50 shades" nonsense {disclaimer... this is my blog, if you don't like my opinion that's ok! you can go kick rocks in flip-flops!! mmkay} i have not, nor do i intend to, read or watch that garbage...

#canibehonest ... it's girl porn... it's damaging, it's garbage & it's making women very aggressive

while out on the town this weekend, MY husband & i saw droves of women going to see the above stated movie... they were coming out of the theater cackling & so overtly affected...
{once again, my opinion, it was like there was a demonic spirit that had attached itself to them... a spirit of "i have no cares... i'm so free... my inhibitions are gone"... it was weird}

through out the weekend, in numbers like never before, women were just short of throwing themselves at MY husband... making long lasting eye contact with him, eying him up & down like he was a piece of meat... one woman... #ifyoucancallherthat... walked up to him & said "i just want to tell you, you are so sexy. you need to know that"... I WAS STANDING RIGHT THERE!!!!!!

wow... just wow... omg...

since when?? when did women become so classless... so aggressive... so trashy!!??!! oh!! what a coincidence... it's the same timing as the release of socially acceptable girl porn... #imjustsaying


so, this is me putting all women on notice... & to the woman that think it's ok to hit on another woman's husband .... wait that would require you to be a woman to begin with...  to the pieces of trash that think it's ok to hit on another woman's husband, i'm putting you on blast... it's not ok!! as a woman {& i use that term loosely} you should have a little more respect for yourselves than to make a pass at married man. to disrespect marriage, a marriage i have fought so hard to keep alive & thriving through mountaintops & valleys... how dare you.

my heart breaks for the current condition of womanhood. we should be lifting one another up & exalting each other. think about what it says in titus 2:3-5 {disclaimer... don't hate the messenger...}

Teach the older women to be quiet and respectful in everything they do. They must not go around speaking evil of others and must not be heavy drinkers, but they should be teachers of goodness. These older women must train the younger women to live quietly, to love their husbands and their children, and to be sensible and clean minded, spending their time in their own homes, being kind and obedient to their husbands so that the Christian faith can’t be spoken against by those who know them.

i think i'll finish with this... the world needs a little more titus 2:3-5 & a little less "50 shades"...





oh hello there football season...

football season has a way of getting me excited!!! oh yea! tomorrow is the start of chargers preseason!

let's go baby... IT'S FOOTBALL TIME!